Are we doomed to our usual relationships, even though we know they so often fade and go wrong? Here are two variations on the traditional. Guest Diana Daffner, author of Tantric Sex for Busy Couples, defines tantra as a means to slowing down the lovemaking, adding lots of eye contact, and finding a divine experience by truly letting your partner deep into your heart. Then Dr. Deborah Anapol, author of Polyamory in the 21st Century, introduces us to the concept of polyamory—having long-term, loving relationships with more than one person, completely openly. Is that really possible?