All couples fight, right? It’s okay as long as you fight fair and make up afterward. At least that’s what the experts say. But those experts are wrong. Not only is fighting fair an oxymoron, it’s almost impossible to do. That’s because it’s hard to follow the rules of fighting when you’re hot and hurting. There’s a way to successfully resolve issues in your marriage that doesn’t involve harsh words, hurt feelings, or avoiding hard conversations. Therapist and writer, Ray Rivers, talks about what this simple solution is and why it’s so important for the long-term health of your marriage. Send your comments and suggestions to Lesli and share the show on Facebook and Twitter.