We’re a nation of comparers. Do our job, house, kids, marriage stack up against our friends’, family’s, co-workers’? Unfortunately, most of us are comparing our reality to other people’s highlight reels. The question isn’t how we fare against others, but how content am I with my life? People get married for all kinds of reasons but mostly because they have found someone they want to build a life with. It is also understood that being physically intimate is part of that life. But for many couples, maybe you, that isn’t happening or, at least, not in the way you want. To talk about why that is and what you can do about it, I’ve invited clinical psychologist and author Dr. Brandy Engler to share her perspective. Send your comments and suggestions to Lesli. If you find the show helpful, send it to your friends on Facebook and Twitter.