Former Shows & Episodes

Love Works

Jim Gulnick & Lisett Guevara

Love Works – Passive-Aggressive Abuse

A passive-aggressive person uses language to manipulate and control a relationship. While people may have passive-aggressive tendencies that may or not be triggered in a given situation or with a specific partner, there are some people that only relate in a passive-aggressive manner. These true passive-aggressives cannot recognize their behavior, show no remorse, and seem to lack capacity for any other means of communication in a relationship.

Join Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick of Love Works as they speak with Annmarie Cristiani, author of The Calm and the Storm – Notes from a passive-aggressive relationship. This episode of Love Works discusses:
• What is a passive-aggressive relationship and how it messes with your mind
• How to recognize if your partner’s behavior is passive-aggressive
• Steps to take to help avoid getting involved in a passive-aggressive relationship
• Why NOT playing the game eliminates your role in creating conflict

Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick are the hosts of Love Works, The Science of Relationships and authors of Single? How I found my perfect match in 90 days. The book provides exercises and worksheets to help you bypass the Ego and find out who you are, what you want, and what you want in a relationship and to help you avoid the wrong partner.

Thank you for being part of the growing online Love Works relationship community! Find out more about Lisett and Jim on 90daysoulmate.com for personal and professional relationships and 90daysolutions.com for business organizations. Have them speak or provide training at your next group event by contacting them at speak@90daysoulmate.com or speak@90daysolutions.com

Love Works – Let Go of My Ego

The Ego raises its beautiful head to protect us in times of emotional stress. Standing guard in front of our conscious mind, its automatic responses shoot out in instant reaction to perceived threats to our self-esteem. When emotions revolt, the Ego builds a moat and a brick wall around our subconscious and effectively shields our mind-spirit connection. As our Ego strengthens its hold, we lose touch with our inner-feelings and our ability for objective self-observation. We don’t let others in as we don’t let ourselves in to our own mind to challenge our perceptions.

Join Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick of Love Works as they discuss the feelings and reasons around broken relationships that cause the Ego to manifest. Listen to audience members share their experiences with divorce and breakups.

This episode of Love Works discusses:
• How the Ego protects us but keeps us from true self-discovery
• Why patterns repeat when the Ego doesn’t retreat
• What “I”, “he”, “she”, or “we” mean when we express our feelings
• When relationship programs from childhood and past relationship should be changed

Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick are the hosts of Love Works, The Science of Relationships and authors of Single? How I found my perfect match in 90 days. The book provides exercises and worksheets to help you bypass the Ego and find out who you are, what you want, and what you want in a relationship.

Thank you for being part of the growing online Love Works relationship community! Find out more about Lisett and Jim on 90daysoulmate.com for personal and professional relationships and 90daysolutions.com for business organizations. Have them speak or provide training at your next group event by contacting them at speak@90daysoulmate.com or speak@90daysolutions.com

Love Works – 4 Hours to Intimacy

Get ready to strengthen, deepen, and build your connection with your partner or develop a new relationship with your perfect match in only 4 hours! We all know someone that has spent months or years in a relationship only to find out that they really never knew their partner. What if you could change all that? What if you could bypass the weeks and months of getting to know someone and uncover an intimate connection in only hours?

Join Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick of Love Works as they interview Dr. Winn Henderson, author of Intimate Connections, How to Achieve Real Intimacy with Anyone Anywhere in the World in Less than 4 Hours! The book helps people discuss and address intimacy at four levels: General, Emotional, Spiritual, and Physical.

This episode of Love Works discusses:
• What keeps you from truly experiencing real intimacy
• How addressing deal breakers up front can save you from experiencing months of heartache
• Why honesty with compassion is the fastest way to build intimacy with another human being
• How chemistry, attraction, and emotions can fool us into a go-nowhere relationship

Dr. Winn Henderson is a retired physician with over 20 years of clinical experience. He is the author or co-author of 37 books including The Cure of Addiction, The Four Questions, Share Your Mission, The Deposition, The Secret to Happiness, The 12 Steps, and most recently: Freedom From Addiction. For the last 40 years Dr. Henderson has been counseling both in person and by telephone clients from all over the world on issues of addiction and finding one’s purpose in life. He is the host of a 15 year, long-running radio talk show, “Share Your Mission”, which seeks to give examples of how having a life purpose brings happiness, contentment, joy, peace of mind, and success. Dr. Henderson’s mission in life is to help you find yours. His book is for sale at Amazon Kindle by searching for Intimate Connections by Winn Henderson. Alternatively, please inquire about direct download by contacting Dr. Winn Henderson.

Love Works – Abusive Relationship Patterns

Most everyone has been affected by abusive relationships. Whether we are directly involved in the relationship as victim or victimizer, or have a friend, family member, or co-worker that is caught in the cycle of abuse, our senses are aware of the drama and sense of helplessness.
Join Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick of Love Works as they interview Justin Nutt, author of The Good Guy, the Bad Guy, and the Ugly Truth. The book helps people recognize patterns that repeatedly lead them to the wrong partner and provides exercises to help increase self-image and change relationship perspectives. This episode of Love Works discusses:
• Exercises to help recognize and break the cycle of abuse
• Why changing attraction patterns may be needed to avoid abuse
• How victims and victimizers may benefit from caring counseling help

Justin is also founder and Executive Director of Acts of Random Kindness (ARK), a disaster relief organization that helps provide direction to individuals and families in the wake of natural disasters. All proceeds from sales of The Good Guy, the Bad Guy, and the Ugly Truth made through Justin’s website will be used to fund the domestic violence work of Acts of Random Kindness.

Love Works – Divorce Support

Love Works provides advice and tips that strengthen and support relationships. Sometimes relationships breakdown and couples withdraw so far apart that there appears to be no turning back from an inevitable divorce. When it becomes best for the family and best for the individuals to separate, divorce may feel like the only sane alternative.

Love Works and special guest Lorri Gill, host of Survival of the Ringless on WCCM 1100 AM, discuss divorce, the devastating impact on finances, family, and friendships, and give some ideas to consider before making a decision to go separate ways:

• Find out why most divorcees say they would have worked harder at
saving their relationship if they had known the difficulties and hardship of the divorce process and its aftermath
• Learn how seeking professional help such as a counselor or therapist
may assist in working through difficulties and saving a marriage or even aid in a more amiable divorce
• Understand the effect of divorce on children and the challenge of
being able to maintain a close relationship as distance and time form a wedge between you and your children

Lorri Gill provides a resource for people before, after, and during a divorce. Whether you are thinking about a divorce, know of someone going through a separation, or are just interested in the subject to learn how and why you should protect your marriage, please join Love Works in welcoming Lorri Gill.

Love Works – Bridge the Language Barrier

People have a hard enough time understanding one another because we all think differently. It may be nearly impossible to make someone else understand our feelings and thoughts – especially when limited to words. Moreover, when we speak a different language and come from a different culture we also apply different meanings to the few words we share. This can lead to frustration or push us to a new vibrant frontier as we seek ways to understand others more fully.

Love Works, with special guest, Eli Bravo of Inspirulina.com, and known as the voice of the Discovery Channel for Latin American, discuss tips to bridge the language barrier. This episode focuses on how differences in language, culture, and traditions bring priceless benefits in relationships and friendships. These same tips can be used even if you speak the same language to more fully understand and appreciate those around you. You will learn:

• The importance of visiting your partner’s country and getting to know their family
• How watching movies and reading books can help build a stronger communication foundation
• Why creating a new identity together strengthens and supports your relationship
• And as a bonus, how a single event can change the direction your life in an instant

So join Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick as they welcome Eli Bravo and find your perfect match or rekindle the fire in your relationship! It’s time to Bridge the Language Barrier!

Love Works – Reprogram Your Mind for Love

Did you ever wonder how to reprogram yourself to receive the love that is waiting for you? Do you want to regain the excitement and energy you once had with your partner? Is it possible to improve your relationship with just a single session of hypnosis? Love Works, with special guest, Bryan Toder of the Plymouth Hypnosis Center and author of Get Thin – Be Happy, will share how you can use visualization to change your life. You will learn:

• How changing your mindset allows you to control your emotions
• Simple steps to reprogram old habits and let go of unwanted patterns
• The 30 second secret to strengthening and building deeper relationships

So join Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick as they welcome Bryan Toder and find your perfect match or rekindle the fire in your relationship! It’s time to Reprogram Your Mind for Love!

Love Works – Regain that Loving Feeling

Everyone wants to feel love – to be connected to another through deep emotions. We are born with the natural ability to give love entirely and the need to receive love from others. Unfortunately, things happen in our lives that hinder our ability to attain this inborn transparent connection. Join us as we talk to Kat Smith, author, entrepreneur, and developer of Love-Perspective – a program that helps you change your viewpoint and find the love you ought to have. Discover why it is ultimately important to love yourself before attempting to love others. Kat also introduces us to the Love & Romance Expo, an event-site she has created that brings together authors, speakers, and exhibitors of love and romance information, products, and services. Regain that Loving Feeling with Love Works and special guest Kat Smith.

Love Works – Technology in Relationships

Technology can be very helpful in communication but also can lead to problems in relationships.
• Have you ever had your text message misunderstood?
• Did the person you meet turn out to be nothing like the impression they gave through email?
• What happens if you hit ‘SEND’ too soon and now a comment or photo is posted for the world to see?
• Can web dating sites help me regarding the speed and making the best choice?

Join Lisett Guevara and Jim Gulnick of Love Works as they interview Hadley Finch, America’s Love Guide, and Founder of TribeofSingles.com, TribeofBlondes.com, and TribeofCouples.com. Hadley shares her experience with the use and misuse of technology in relationships. This program provides examples and advice that will lead to better communication between you and those you care about and provides direction in finding your perfect match.

Love Works – Develop a Relationship Culture

Meet Carmen from Venezuela, Ivan from England, and Tara from the United States
as they discuss their education and childhood relationship programming. How does
culture, family, and schooling effect who we are and the relationships we form?
Why do we spend years in school for jobs that are fleeting yet no time in relationship
oriented education for a love that we expect to last forever? This program provides
examples and advice that will lead to better communication between you and those
you care about.

Further information can be found in Single? How I found my perfect match in 90 days.