Whether it is aging, falling in love or developing a career, the only constant in life is that change occurs. Last week’s show about coming out illustrated a major change in gay people’s lives — revealing one’s sexual identity can result in both positive and negative impacts. A recent YouTube video about a young man who comes out and wows an audience shows how negative reactions can become positive changes. The changes we face can be forced on us or those of our own choosing; they can be striving to recapture or correct the past or about wanting to create a new future. Let the Guide For Gay Men, Jim Duke, guide you through making the changes you want in your life, from where you are now to where you want to be.