Tantra Cafe
Tantra Cafe
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Tantra is often misunderstood because of its relationship to sexual energy. This show dispels much of the hype and provides a comfortable and safe haven through listening. Learn about the history and theory, meet experts and every day people who have used Tantra and get a weekly “take away” such as a breathing exercise. Tantra is better than chicken soup for ailing relationships!
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Tantra Cafe – More on Happiness and Special Valentine’s Day Coaching
Laurie discusses happiness! More about the subject of happiness. Intimacy coach Charla Hathaway www.bodyJoy.us joins Laurie to demonstrate some steamy ways to talk with your partner during lovemaking to extend and enhance the lovemaking experience. Very informative and helpful!… Read more about this episode...
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Biography
Tantra Cafe with Laurie Handlers
Laurie Handlers is a Tantra Teacher, author, talk show host, intimacy coach and Spiritual Leader. She holds a Masters degree in Education and a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and Sociology. Her career includes over thirty years as a corporate change consultant, individual empowerment coach and international seminar leader. She is a dynamic speaker and facilitator.
Since 1999, she has taught Butterfly Tantra workshops for women, men, couples and singles on ancient Indian, Tibetan and Egyptian Tantric techniques and secrets that are the basis of healing the body, releasing past emotional trauma, stopping the aging process, and reducing stress.
Corp phone: (202) 686-7440
Fax: Same as Corp. Phone
E-mail: Laurie@butterflyworkshops.com
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Archived Shows
- Tantra Cafe – More on Happiness and Special Valentine’s Day Coaching
Laurie discusses happiness! More about the subject of happiness. Intimacy coach Charla Hathaway www.bodyJoy.us joins Laurie to demonstrate some steamy ways to talk with your partner during lovemaking to extend and enhance the lovemaking experience. Very informative and helpful!
- Tantra Cafe – Laurie Handlers on Happiness and Ryan Rodriguez about Teens and Tantra
Laurie discusses happiness! What is happiness really? Then 20 year old Ryan Rodriguez joins her to share how his life was affected by meeting Laurie, having a Tantra Master up close and personal in his life from age 14. A good show for parents on how to talk to teenagers about sex.
- Tantra Cafe – Laurie Handlers’ Transformation of Tantra Café and Awkward Intercourse (double entendre)
Laurie discusses her recent transformation, growth, change, and her desire to complete with Tantra Café www.TantraCafe.com, opening her show up to a broader audience and set of topics. A new program is coming! Then Tpouka Mysnikol joins her on the show to discuss the double meaning topic of Awkward Intercourse. A good show for parents on how to talk to their children and teenagers about sex.
- Tantra Cafe – Internal Adjustments that Heal Your Body and Romantic Tips for Valentine’s day from Ireland
Master Bodyworker Michele Younger www.MicheleYounger.com shares about Mula Ajna, an extremely powerful sequence of internal healing adjustments that you might consider for your body and why people fly across the country to work with her. Afterwards Laurie is joined by Ireland’s Tom Colton www.bindutantraireland.com to get you ready for a hot and very intimate Valentine’s Day.
- Tantra Cafe – Talking to Your Doctor about Sex and Keeping Romance Alive in Marriage
Sex educator Juicy Justine www.juicyjustine.com joins Laurie to discuss questions you should ask your doctor about sex. Then the Transformational Warriors www.TransformationalWarriors.com visit to share about keeping the spark alive in marriage. Simple common sense romance tips.
- Tantra Cafe – What to Give Up to get Everything & Saving Your Rotten Relationship
Shivanada Deva, http://www.sdeva111@gmail.com joins Laurie and talks about the zen of non-attachment, giving up things to get the most amazing happiness, everything you have dreamed of! Then Goddes Lily www.sacredsexdoc.com discusses simple ways for couples in the doldrums to re-spark their relationships and how important it is for them to jumpstart their desire and passion.
- Tantra Cafe – “Youthing” Your Body
Tyr Throne movement expert www.BodyEvolutionInt.com, talks about his unique approach to bodywork, how people can be empowered to bring youth to their bodies on an hourly basis. Movement is key. He takes us through a simple yet deep exercise. Truly Tantric.
- Tantra Cafe – Movement, Dance, Breath = Tantra Transforming Power
Zahava Griss http://www.lovemakingdances.com/, shares her unique perspective on how Tantra through movement, dance and sound can transform our feelings of power within ourselves as well as the power differential in the world. In her work she perceives Tantra as ending racism.
- Tantra Cafe – The Possibility of Physical Immortality
James Strole and Bernadeane from People Unlimited, www.peopleunlimitedinc.com, discuss their new way of life, their community in Scottsdale, AZ and the possibility that human life could go on forever.
- Tantra Cafe – Healing the World Through Tantra and Raising Awareness about Sexual Abuse
Luba Evans www.tantrawithoutborders.com discusses how practicing Tantra can change people, heal their broken hearts and make a shift in the world. Then Laurie is joined by Kal Holczler http://www.voicesofdignity.com/voicesofdignity/ and Jessica Johnson www.Jeans4Justice.org, two groups standing up against sexual violence.
- Tantra Cafe – How Do You Tell Your Family You’re a Sexual Healer?
Rev Goddess Charmaine www.sensuousmystic.com, author of The Sensuous Mystic: Uniting Sex and Spirit and her son Armane discuss the family challenges and the resulting beauty of being honest about her sexual healing profession. A poignant and fascinating interview to say the least!
- Tantra Cafe – Healing Sexual Abuse and Trauma with Tantra and Continuing with Men and Romance
Jennifer Hartnett suffered sexual abuse from the age of five and was finally able to rid her body of the trauma through attending Tantra classes. She describes her recovery and empowerment. Laurie continues her exploration of men and romance with Edward Mack offering simple rules for men who want to romance women on and off the dance floor.
- Tantra Cafe – The Art of Kissing
Tantra Teacher Anita DeFrancesco, www.tantrawisdom.com instructs how to kiss and why kissing is so important in some surprising ways.
- Tantra Cafe – The Romance of Moving to Paradise & Sex Toys…Can They be Tantric?
Bruce Starr, author of Starting Over In Paradise www.roatanbruce.com shares his dream of moving to an island away from it all as Laurie continues her exploration of men and romance. Then Laurie welcomes Shanna Katz www.ShannaKatz.com back to explore sex toys and whether or not they fit in with the practice of Tantra.
- Tantra Cafe – What is a Sacred Sexual Healer? Should You Go to One? Should You become One?
Triambika Vengochea, Dakini, sexual healer www.EcstaticAwareness.com talks about her own sexual awakening and how she felt called to become a Tantric healer. She openly discusses what it takes to have this avocation and what kinds of people would seek this particular type of personal private Tantric session. She also shares about the training required to become a sacred shamanic sexual healer.
- Tantra Cafe – Redefining Sex for People with Disabilities & More Men and Romance
Shanna Katz, sexuality educator www.ShannaKatz.com shares how people need to redefine sex for disabled from regular missionary position sex to everything else, everything else! Then entertainment creator/consultant Jonathan Pillot picks up the previous week’s conversation about men and romance especially after a relationship has been going for some time mailto:jonathanpillot@gmail.com. New regular feature Little Known Sex Factoids with Lori Phillips, the Hormone Nurse www.hormonenurse.com.
- Tantra Cafe – Fine Lingerie with Bonnie Vacari and Romance from a Man’s Point of View with Bill Plikaitis
Bonnie Vacari discusses the effect of fine lingerie from France and Italy on the uninitiated. Then Bill Plikaitis joins Laurie with a funny yet enlightening take on men and modern romance.
- Tantra Cafe – Flirting
Robyn Vogel discusses flirting with heart, what it is, how to do it and why. Great for people who swear they don’t know how to flirt.
- Tantra Cafe – Vaginal Atrophy and Yoni Healing
Helen Rollins Lord shares her personal experience with menopause, breast cancer and hurtful drying up of her woman’s sacred space and how she cured herself and now helps women of all ages. The Todd Kamensky discusses Tantric Yoni Healing as a Daka trained to assist women and couples in their pursuit of exploded pleasure. Two unique perspectives.
- Tantra Cafe – When Your Partner has Asperger’s and More
Dr. Amy Marsh shares her personal experience relating to a lover with Asperger’s Adult High Functioning Autism and how Tantra helped. She then discusses various other conditions that require patience and possibly Tantra.
- Tantra Cafe – Is Kinky Perverted or Holy?
Lee Harrington author of Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond distinguishes kinky sex from perversion to spiritual path.
- Tantra Cafe – Is There Such a Thing as a Normal Vagina?
Heart of the Flower: The Book of Yonis authors Andrew Barnes and Yvonne Lumsden discuss the latest controversy about how women rarely know what other vaginas (Tantra word = yonis) look like and seek dangerous cosmetic surgery to “fix” themselves when no procedure of this kind is necessary.
- Tantra Cafe – Asserting Boundaries
Sex Educator Eric Amaranth distinguishes the importance of boundaries for people exploring sexual ecstasy and for people who teach people how.
- Tantra Cafe – The Importance of Hormones for Juicy Living
Lori Phillips discusses how important it is for women and men to get their hormone levels checked and to use bio-identical hormone replacement.
- Tantra Cafe – From Corporate Executive to Sex Consciousness Consultant
Leela Sullivan describes her journey from the world of banking to the world of sexual healing. Amazing tale of self-healing and life change.
- Tantra Cafe – How Tantra Helps People with Aspergers Autism
Shivananda Deva, shares about his Aspergers diagnosis and how Tantra helped him open his heart to himself and others.
- Tantra Cafe – Polyamory for the 21st Century
Deborah “Taj” Anapol grants an intimate and candid look at her life in an alternative partnering process. Anapol is no-nonsense. She really distinguishes this lifestyle making it clear.
- Tantra Cafe – Biology vs. Tantra in Partner Selection
Mead Rose discusses amazing differences in Tantric practice and selection of partners and the surprising outcomes.
Also featured mini interview with Al Vitaro, creator of Tantra Chair, beautiful furniture for lovemaking. - Tantra Cafe – Tantra in the Music
Wynne Paris, musician, describes Tantric meditation through music and song..
- Tantra Cafe - Living in Intentional Community
Robert Silber founder of Kipuka Temple Community shares about the challenges of living together with others in paradise.
- Tantra Cafe – Jealousy - A Personal Growth Opportunity
Sasha & Janet Kira Lessin discuss how jealousy can be used as an opportunity to grow and plenty more about Polyamory.
- Tantra Cafe – Looking for Yourself on the Spiritual Path & Finding You Were There All Along
Krishna Prem shares his great humor and wisdom about finding a path, finding a teacher and then finding himself. Lots of good tips for seekers.
- Tantra Cafe – How Women Can Stay Juicy Before/During & After Menopause
Crystal Dawn Morris shares personal and scientific information about how women can take charge of their lives no matter what is going on with their bodies hormonally.
- Tantra Cafe – From Warrior to Lover
Shawn Roop shares his amazing journey from police and military background to discovering Tantra and how it’s changed his life.
- Tantra Cafe – Healing the World from Your Bedroom
Dagny Anne Boch, Tantric Educator, shares her secret for healing the world from inside her bedroom and you can do this too!
- Tantra Cafe – Neurobiology and Tantra
Suzie Heumann, President of www.Tantra.com discusses the chemical biological effects of Tantra on the brain and the body.
- Tantra Cafe – What Every Man Can Do to Improve His Lovemaking
Destin Gerek the Original Erotic Rock Star, shares the secrets of his online course for men – a must for men who want to increase their pleasure as well as their partner’s.
- Tantra Cafe – Non-Attachment Being Present in the Moment
Kerri Kannon, Personal Success Coach talks about a time when she shared her intimate lover and how it opened up non-attachment in her life.
- Tantra Cafe – The Art of Kissing
Tantra Teacher Anita DeFrancesco, instructs how to kiss and why kissing is so important in some surprising ways.
- Tantra Cafe – A Rebroadcast of The Value of a DAILY Sexual-Spiritual Practice
In this best of show, Antoinette and Richard Asimus share their ecstatic love-making practice as a hot remedy for partners who have lost their spark.
- Tantra Cafe – How Tantra Helps People with Aspergers Autism
Shivananda Deva, shares about his Aspergers diagnosis and how Tantra helped him open his heart to himself and others.
- Tantra Cafe – Sex Educators of the World Unite!
Baba Dez, founder of Sedona Temple www.SedonaTemple.com describes his international tour uniting sex educators around the world empowering them to rid the world of shame, fear and guilt – latest developments in choice as a way of life.
- Tantra Cafe – Qigong: Taoist Practice the Basis of All Sexual Alchemy
George Love, Doctor of Oriental Medicine shares the depth of his studies in a variety of Eastern practices and lineages that lead to complete sexual freedom and ecstasy.
- Tantra Cafe – When Your Energy is Blocked
Kate Holt, Core Energetics practitioner/teacher talks about how to know your energy is blocked and what you can do.
- Tantra Cafe – Goddess Temple Sacred Sexual Healing Arts
Tracy Elise, High Priestess of the Phoenix Goddess Temple explains what, why and how a goddess temple operates and why a woman might consider sending her man to such a temple.
- Tantra Cafe – Changing Gender – A Intimate Look into a Radical Life Change
Millie Knox, born a male, shares her amazing story about becoming a female and life after Gender Reassignment.
- Tantra Cafe – The Value of a DAILY Sexual-Spiritual Practice
Antoinette and Richard Asimus share their ecstatic love-making practice as a hot remedy for partners who have lost their spark.
- Tantra Cafe – Intimacy = In To Me See
Hercules, the Pleasure Coach talks about taking clients directly to the levels of intimacy they desire through talking and touching.
- Tantra Cafe – Living an Orgasmic Life
Edie Weinstein, “Bliss Mistress” shares her ideas and tips for overcoming limitations and giving yourself permission to live full out…allowing the richness of who you truly are.
- Tantra Cafe – Pornography: Is it a bad thing or a good thing?
Lawrence Lanoff, former Playboy producer, discusses his opinions about pornography, transformation, waking up from the sleep state of fear, guilt, shame and blame.
- Tantra Cafe – What’s Romantic Love Got to Do With Tantra?
Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson, a devoted married couple, Tantra teachers share how to apply fundamental Tantric concepts within a 21st century partnership.
- Tantra Cafe – What is a real Tantra Session?
Michele Younger (senior course leader at Butterfly Workshops, Inc.) and David Lucas (client) join for a conversation about what a real Tantra session is and how it can impact a person’s life on every level.
- Tantra Cafe – Searching for the Guru Within
Author Marty Wohl shares his life of searching for inner peace finding it peace was inside all the while.
- Tantra Cafe - Teen Sexuality – One Tantric Parent Speaks Out
Lisa Smith-Horowitz, massage therapist, entrepreneur, mother talks about how she coaches and counsels her two teenage boys and their friends.
- Tantra Cafe - The Ancient Roadmap for Tantra Practice - The Secrets of the Vigyan Bhairav Tantra
Dr. Michael Dean Goodman discusses Shiva & Shakti’s teachings about the 3 dimensions of life: left/right (masculine-yang vs. feminine-yin), back/front (independence-abandonment vs. intimacy-engulfment), bottom/top (grounded- ness vs. airiness) – and how to use tantra to heal and open these 3 dimensions for maximum flow of life – divine ecstasy.
- Tantra Cafe - How the Sensation of Pain can be used for Conscious Spiritual Transformation
Barbara Carrellas discusses modalities such as piercing, tattoos, water, fire and suspension as tools for meditation and coming into the present moment. - Tantra Cafe - Is there such a thing as Sexual Intelligence?
Partners and founders of Tantra Nova, Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver talk about how sexual energy gets translated into greater intelligence and creativity. - Tantra Cafe - Exploring the Darker Side
Om Rupani, NYC based photographer shares his growth, development and exploration since his first dance with Tantra. - Tantra Cafe - Healing the Soul through G-Spot Stimulation
Cynthia Taylor Lamborne shares her healing sessions with lucite G-spot wands and healing herself of cancer. - Tantra Cafe - Teenage Sexuality Crisis in the USA
Expert Heather Simonson appears on Tantra Café to shed some light on the cause of America’s staggering teenage pregnancy epidemic and what can be done about it.
- Tantra Cafe - Healing a Marriage and more!
A conversation with Gloria and Jim Alfaro, typical American couple who healed their failing marriage without counseling, but with Tantra and got some other life-altering surprises along the way.
- Tantra Cafe - Making the film Tantric Tourists
A conversation with Alexander Snelling, director and Kirsty Alison, producer of Tantric Tourists the film in which Laurie Handlers is the star.
- Tantra Cafe - Polyamory or is it Polyagony?
Dealing with jealousy and fear that arises when relating to more than one partner with Dr. Deborah Anapol.
- Tantra Cafe - Communication in Bed!
How to tell your partner what you like and don’t like with Carla Tara. We cover it all!
- Tantra Cafe - East Meets West
West becomes the new East as we discuss how westerners are taking to yoga, meditation, and Tantra with Chandi Devi from Karma Caffee
- Tantra Cafe - BDSM as Transformation
This amazing topic on Tantra Cafe will have you opening to more desire, making yourself feel safe and whole no matter what you want in bed with Gloria Brame. It makes Kinky seem normal. Amazing!
- Tantra Cafe - Sex American Style
This week we revisit what’s ailing America when it comes to sex and what they can do about it with Eugene Alegria, the American School of Tantra.
- Tantra Cafe - Being Happy for No Reason
This week on Tantra Café we discover how to avoid highs and lows in effect how to be happy all the time with Honesty coach Michael-Michelle Smith www.abundantmichael.com.
- Tantra Cafe - Safe Hot Steamy Sex: Argentine Tango
This week on Tantra Cafe we discuss the differences and similarities of Tantra and Argentine Tango with Chan Park, www.TangoZen.com
- Tantra Cafe - Finding Freedom in the Unknown
This week on Tantra Café we discuss the transformational impact Tantra has on every aspect of life with artist and workshop leader Rafael Martinez.
- Tantra Cafe - The Art of Intentional Living
We learn about getting clear and then setting clear intentions about what we want in our life vs. what we don’t want with Michele Wortman, General Manager of www.ButterflyWorkshops.com
- Tantra Cafe - Love American Style
This week on Tantra Café we discover the difference Tantra can make to the American default way of sex with Eugene Alegria, The American School of Tantra.
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