Patricia Harmon, author of Arms Wide Open, shared her sadness and joy in her three young adult sons developing their own lives and leaving home. Nothing would ever be the same again after they left home. We talked about how to grieve their absence without hanging on. Then I spoke with Vanessa Taylor, author of the dating book Text. Love. Power. which focuses on the new rules for 21st century dating. Her approach cautions women against not playing hard to get.