While carrying a baby for many women is a joyous time – for many it is a difficult nine months of illness, bed rest, limited or no sex, worry, stress and angst. If you’ve ever experienced a high risk pregnancy yourself or witnessed someone suffer through it; as a supportive spouse, family member, friend or just as a distant onlooker – then you’ve probably heard them ask the question in excruciating anguish: “Why me?” Kelly Whitehead, lost her first born child due to high risk pregnancy complications and helps answer the question: “Why Me?” She is the author of “High-Risk Pregnancy – Why Me? Understanding and Managing a Potential Preterm Pregnancy – A Medical and Emotional Guide” a resource used by medical professionals and families struggling with high risk pregnancies.