The life of Elvin Dowling was literally and psychologically saved by his having a mentor. By age19, his brothers and cousins had all been killed by drugs and gang violence, while he went on to become Chief of Staff of the National Urban League. Douglas Esper was the father of an unborn child whom his wife miscarried. While many people understand that mothers grieve such misfortune, fathers do, too. Hear one man’s story of his mourning.