Most couples marry because they love each other but don’t often think about what that means past their wedding day. Is being in love truly more important to a good marriage than really loving each other? Do you love your partner unconditionally or do you love with strings attached? Are your words of love backed up by loving behavior? Having the answers to these questions can mean the difference between having a great marriage and one that dies the death of a thousand cuts. Darren Pierre, author of The Invitation to Love: Recognizing the Gift Despite Pain, Fear, and Resistance shares his insights on these and other questions about love. Send your comments and suggestions to Lesli and post the show on Facebook and Twitter.