Dr. Mayer reacts to so many of the attitudes he observes from parents about raising teenagers. Whether it comes from social media, his office consults, or social observations, Dr. Mayer sees that our approach and attitudes are all wrong. We are all braced to fight with our teens rather than to enjoy them as they grow into adulthood. So, if we want to fight Mayer offers us a 10 round championship fight we can win. He divides up our biggest problems with teens into 10 areas and shows how parents can win these fights all the time and it comes from taking off the boxing gloves and changing our fundamental approach to teenagers.