It’s a common belief that marriage is hard work. It’s also a common belief that all couples, even happy ones, fight. So it isn’t any surprise that marriages with these characteristics are thought to be normal. But they don’t have to be. Couples struggle negotiating a wonderful marriage because they end up as adversaries instead of allies when faced with a disagreement. In their desire to each be right, they end up making their partner be wrong. This process continues in an endless loop that takes all the love and joy out of the relationship. Jon and Beverly Meyerson, couples coaches and the authors of Power Snuggles: Your Path to Vibrant and Lasting Love, join the show for a discussion of how to end the struggles for good. Send your comments and suggestions to Lesli. Share the show on Facebook, Twitter and Clammr