Is “Busy” your answer to the question, “How are you?” For a lot of us, that seems to be the standard response. Not only does it seem to be the new normal, it seems to be the new status symbol. But accepting this as a daily practice has its costs, especially to your marriage. If you rate your marriage as fine or okay, you may be putting it on the back burner while you are “busy” with everything else you need to get done. But nothing thrives on neglect and your marriage will eventually suffer too. Dustin Riechmann, author of The 15 Minute Marriage Makeover and the creator of EngagedMarriage.com, joins the show for a lively discussion on how you can take back your marriage. Send your comments and suggestions to Lesli and share the show with your friends on Twitter and Facebook