We all know that relationships need care and feeding to make them last and most people don’t get married thinking they will get divorced. So when the marriage is troubled, we agonize over what to do. Can the relationship change? When is enough, enough? Are we making a mistake?

Every relationship may be different but there are some common reasons people give for ending their marriage. Mid-life relationship expert, Jed Diamond joins Mandy to discuss these common reasons, what’s really going on and whether people have the opportunity to turn disillusionment into real lasting love.

Jed Diamond’s latest book, The Enlightment Marriage: The 5 Transformative Stages of Relationships and Why The Best Is Still to Come is available on Amazon. Diamond has developed 10 Indicators that a relationship is over and you can get those by emailing Jed at Jed@menalive.com.

If you know your marriage is over and are looking for help with the next steps, check out Mandy’s online divorce coaching program, My Divorce Pal. You can also find more divorce resources at Mandy’s blog, Since My Divorce