Many marriages suffer due to the inability of spouses to balance their own needs as individuals with the needs of being part of a couple. But is it really a question of remaining independent versus becoming dependent? Can you be married and still hold on to who you are? What would that look like? Dr. Darlene Lancer, marriage and family therapist and the author of Codependency for Dummies, reveals why maintaining who you are and allowing yourself to become part of something bigger is the healthiest path to a successful relationship.

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