Are You Guilty of Trying to Fix Your Partner?
If you are part of a couple, you have a built-in scapegoat. Any issue could be resolved if your partner just did things your way. The problem with this belief is that your partner is thinking the same thing about you. So, you make demands, masquerading as suggestions or, worse, criticisms and nothing changes. In fact, it might even be getting worse. The answer isn’t to increase the volume. It’s to stop and look at yourself in the mirror. The challenges in your relationship are due to what both of you are doing, not just your partner’s behavior. Transformation Mentor Debra Beck explains how this unproductive pattern gets started and how you, all by yourself, can stop it. Feel free to share the show on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.
If you, or someone you love, are caught in this kind of downward spiral, I invite you to contact me and take advantage of my free Create Your Happily Ever After Marriage Strategy Session.