When your child complains about things not being fair, how do you react? You probably just explain that life isn’t fair. So why do you think marriage should be? The idea is that it’s a 50/50 proposition and if you do more than your partner, well, you’re just a sucker. This puts the focus on what you think your partner isn’t doing instead of on what you are bringing to your most important relationship. It leads to scorekeeping and resentment. Not ideal for a healthy marriage. So, what is a better way of looking at marriage? Authors of the new book The 80/80 Marriage, Nate and Kaley Kemp are hear to bring a new perspective to marriage that just might save yours.

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