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Dr. Frankie Bashan

Queer & Dear – How to Stay Together for 16 Years and Then Get Married: The Long-Term Love Relationship Cocktail for Gay/Lesbian Couples

My chiropractor Dwayne and his partner of 16 years just got married. When I learned he had been partnered for over a decade and only now decided to tie the knot, I was curious about his story: After all this time, what’s Dwayne’s secret and why now did he choose to get married? Dwayne shared with me his Long-Term Love Relationship Cocktail: 2 Parts Consistency, 1 Part Trust, 3 Parts Sex and lots and lots of Listening. Tune in as he gives us simple ways that we all can show our partners how we love them, and still staying true to ourselves.
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